Amaran : Aku tahu kau tak suka jiwang jiwang tapi boleh blah , kasar otai mana pun.Once kau dah jatuh cinta , you should know how to handle it.
First question ; Why do people talk about love?
Other people ; Minority would say , they just feel like talking about it.
Majority would say , They are in love.
Myself ; I've been in love , I've been dumped , I've met a lot of different guys , I've seen true love , I've seen people who got stupid because of puppy love , I was stupid , last but not least , maybe I just realize what true love really is. I'm not in love right now, but I believe in Allah's plan where I know I will fall in love ,maybe at that time,it will be with the right person and at the right time.In fact, I'm teaching myself how to love. Allah , Prophet S.A.W, Family & Real friends. They are true love.
1# Know only for a week or maybe two , and , ''PLEASE BE MY GIRLFRIEND!''
a day , a week , 2 weeks , a month. Seriously dudee?! seriously? Ok we girls sometimes terbodoh jugak , get that . Heyy , A lady is doing the talk now. eh eh #overdena. Ha seriously?! Dear sisters , i've been int that situation and please , it doesn't work this way. it maybe will , but , for a short time. Give a lil bit space & time . Guys , don't be too rush . Making a girl as your girlfriend actually tak bawak kemana lagi , so let Allah settle it down lah, Being your girlfriend or boyfriend tak jamin kebahagiaan mahupun forever and ever. Bila betul suka , slow down ,don't rush , jika mampu , buatlah apa yang patut , kalau tak, bagitahu Allah , Allah yang settlekan jodoh kita. So relaaax , tak dapat si dia , ada yang lebih baik la tu (:
2# When a guy said ; I gave you everything ,why can't you just agree to be my girlfriend?
Everything = Material. Right ! *angkat kening sebelah bagai ziana zain* . Listen , kami perempuan memang suka gifts , but there are some rules ( exception for materialistic girls) . Not everyday , not trying to spoil us with all the gifts , and the most important one is , not giving what you've given us and expecting something.I meant, bagi biar ikhlas . Kalau beri harapkan belaian , itu nafsu membabi buta (saya tak mencarut :3 ) . Ada faham bro? Perempuan itu bukan pelacur mengharapkan belaian kasih sayang forever and ever kaulah dunia gifts hugs and kisses pegang sini pegang sana JE . Baby girls , beware please? Lelaki boleh tinggalkan kita bila bila je sayang , bila bila je . There's no such thing as forever and ever, before kahwin.Takut kesian suami , berapa banyak laki perlu beri segala sampai jumpa lelaki sebenar yang akan jadi suami si perempuan? Nauzubillah. Girl friends , jauhi lelaki seperti ini.
'' Semua orang mempunyai Fitrah , tapi bila Fitrah itu tidak diiringi dengan Hidayah .Itu yang menjadikan Fitrah itu menjadi Fitnah. '' - Ust.Pahrol
To be continued ......
p/s : this is general , not to offend anyone. Sorry .
6 comments:
suka entry kak dena yg ni :)
terima kasih :) peringatan buat semua :)
Agreed. I've been in that kind of situation too. Baca ni at the same time tertiba terflashback balik zaman muda dulu. Eceh. :)
sukaaaaaaaaaaaaa :D
aliah :) hehehehe! kaaaan , ada je kita lalui semua ni ahaha.
isyaaa thankyouuu :)
Well said.
Kan bagus semua orang fikir macam ni.
:)
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